The Testing, and the Beauty, in the Waiting
- Lacey Conway
- Aug 22
- 3 min read

Seasons of waiting have a way of revealing where our trust really lies. They test whether our hope is in the outcome we long for—or in God alone. But waiting isn’t only about endurance; it’s about opportunity.
In the pause, we are invited to lay down our anxieties and sink deeper into the arms of our ever-present Good Shepherd. Waiting gives us the choice: Will we pace in fear, or will we lean into His peace? Will we waste the days wishing them away, or will we embrace them as sacred ground where something holy is being formed?
Waiting with intention produces lasting fruit.
These seasons are not barren places. They can be surprisingly fruitful if we choose to do something with the time we’ve been given. We can learn something new, strengthen our skills, read the books we’ve been putting off, or pick up a creative outlet that stirs joy. We can use the margin to reconnect with family or nurture friendships that often get crowded out in the busyness of life. We can pour our words, prayers, and encouragement into others who may also be waiting.
And here’s the truth we often overlook: if we don’t learn how to wait well, we will struggle indefinitely—because in reality, life is full of waiting. Not only for the big things like healing, breakthrough, or direction, but for the daily moments too. We wait for a reply from a friend, for a conversation with our spouse, at the red light, for our children to get dressed. Waiting isn’t occasional; it’s constant.
That’s why patience is such a deep part of God’s design. He wove it into love itself. Scripture tells us, “Love is patient…” (1 Corinthians 13:4). Learning to wait well is learning to love well. It’s learning to trust God’s timing, to rest instead of rush, to release instead of control. And the more we practice that trust, the more peaceful and joy-filled our lives become.
Waiting does not mean doing nothing. It means choosing wisely how to steward this stretch of time. The danger is when we let waiting become a weight, when grumbling and complaining harden our hearts and steal our joy. Complaints crush, but gratitude forms. Restlessness depletes, but faith renews. In the quiet, we are given a chance to be shaped—not by what hasn’t happened yet, but by the One who is always at work, even in stillness.
And here’s the grace-filled joy: waiting can become a springboard.
Instead of detouring us or derailing us, it can propel us into greater faith and deeper clarity. It can teach us to delight in the presence of God, to notice His small daily gifts, to find beauty in stillness, and to trust His timing with a heart at rest. Waiting becomes more than just a delay—it becomes a gift.
“But those who wait on the Lordshall renew their strength;they shall mount up with wings like eagles,they shall run and not be weary,they shall walk and not faint.”— Isaiah 40:31
So don’t despise your waiting. Choose to wait well. Let it be a season where you plant seeds of faith, wisdom, joy, and connection. Because what God grows in you here will not be lost—it is preparing you for what comes next.
Lord,
Thank You for the season I am in. Even when my heart longs to move forward, help me to see the beauty here, in the now. Give me fresh eyes to recognize the gift of this waiting—not as wasted time, but as holy ground where You are working in me.
Replace my frustration with gratitude. Let my waiting be filled with wonder at what You are forming in the quiet. Refresh me with Your Spirit, nurture me with Your Word, and remind me that nothing is wasted in Your hands.
Teach me to wait with joy, with faith, and with expectancy. Let this time be a wellspring that waters the next season, carrying fruit that will last. I trust You, Shepherd of my soul, to lead me with goodness all the way through.
Amen.
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